Betiyon ke faza'il per Farman-e- Mustafaﷺ
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيم
Qayamat Tak Madad ki Basharat
Huzur صَلّى اللهُ عليهِ واٰله وسلّم ka farman Hai: jab kisi ke yaha beti ki wiladat hoti Hai to Allahعَزَّ وَجَل uss ke Ghar farishton ko bhejta Hai, Jo aakar kahte hain: Aaye Ghar walo! Tum per salamti ho. Phir farishte apne paro Se uss larki ko ghair lete Hain aur uss ke sar(head) per haath pher Kar kahte Hain: Ek kamzor larki kamzor Aaorat (woman) se paida hui, Jo isski kafalat karega qayamat Tak usski madad ki jayegi .
(Al-Mu'jam-us-sagheer, vol-1, Pg-30)
Ek Beti ki Parwarish per I'naam
Sarkar e Madina صَلّى اللهُ عليهِ واٰله وسلّم ne Irshad Farmaya: jis shakhsh ki Ek beti ho wo ussko Addab sikhaye aur acha addab sikhaye aur ussko ta'lim de aur achi ta'lim de aur Allah عَزَّ وَجَل ne ussko Jo ne’mat atta farmai Hain unn ne'mato me se ussko bhi de to uss ki wo beti usske liye Dozakh ki Aag se sitar aur hijab hogi.
(Hilyat-ul-Awliya,vol-5,Pg-67, Hadees-6378)
3 betion ki Parwarish per I'naam
Huzur صَلّى اللهُ عليهِ واٰله وسلّم ne Farmaya :jis shakhsh ki 3 betiyan ho aur wo unn per sabar kare , unhe khilaye ,pilaye aur unn ko apni kamai se kapre pahnaye to wo larkiyan uss ke liye Dozakh ki Aag se Hijab ban jayengi.
(sunnan-ibn-Majah,Vol-4,Pg-189, Hadees-3669)
Allah عَزَّ وَجَل ne Jannat wajib kardi
Umm-ul-Mu'mineen Sayyidutuna'Aaishah Siddiqah رضي الله عنها farmati Hain: mere pass ek miskin Aaorat apni 2 betiyon ke saath aayi, Mai ne ussko 3 khajure di, uss ne ek ek khajur dono bachiyon ko de di aur ek khajur khane ke liye apne muh ki taraf le jarahi thi ke usski betiyon ne uss see wo khajur bhi mang li, uss ne wo khajur bhi tor Kar dono ko khila di, mujhe uss per ta'jubb hua phir Mai ne Rasool e Akramصَلّى اللهُ عليهِ واٰله وسلّم se iss baat ka tazkirah Kiya to aap صَلّى اللهُ عليهِ واٰله وسلّم be Irshad Farmaya: Allah عَزَّ وَجَل ne uss (ke iss kaam) ke sabab uss Aaorat ke liye Jannat wajib kardi.
[Sahi Muslim, Pg-1415, Hadess-2630]
Betiyon ya bahno ki Parwarish per I'naam
Farmaney Mustafa صَلّى اللهُ عليهِ واٰله وسلّم Hai: Jo shakhsh 3 betiyon ya bahno ki iss tarah Parwarish Kare ke unn ko Addab sikhaye aur unn per maherbani ka bartao Kare
Yaha Tak ke Allah عَزَّ وَجَل unhe be-niyaz Kar de(Yani wo balig hojaye ya unnka nikah hojaye ya wo sahib e maal hojaye)to Allah عَزَّ وَجَل uss ke liye Jannat wajib farma deta Hai. Ye Irshad e nawabi sun Kar sahaba-i-karam ne arz ki: agr koi shakhsh do larkion ki Parwarish Kare to? Irshad Farmaya: usske liye bhi yahi uzzar wa sawab Hai yaha Tak ke agr log ek ka zikar karte to aap صَلّى اللهُ عليهِ واٰله وسلّم uss ke baare me bhi yahi Irshad farmate.
(Sharh-us-sunnah lil-Baghawi, vol-6, Pg-452, Hadees-3351)
Maqam e Shukar (Gratitude)
Islami baihno ke liye maqam e Shukar (Gratitude) Hai ke Ek waqt wo Tha jab dunya me unn ka paida hona jillat wa ruswai samjha jata Tha magar islami ta'limat , qurani aayat aur nabwi irshadat ne unn ki ahmiyat ujagar Kar ke us baat ka Sa'oor dilaya ke betiyan rahamat e khudabandi Ke nuzul ka ba'yes Hain, lihaja inn ki qadar karni chahiye. Chunanche yahi bajah Hai ke aaj ke uss per ashub daor me islami ta'limat se Aarastah maa baap ki tarbiyat wa tawajo jaha betiyon ko mu'ashre ka ek ba-izzat fard bana ne per markuz Hai wahin wo beti ki bahtarin Parwarish se bhi gafil Nahi. Balke beti ki azmat wa ahmiyat ke paishe-najar usski izzat wa aafiyat ki hifajat ke liye Islam ne Jo uss ki tarbiyat ke sunhairi madni Phool atta farmaye hain.Read More